Wednesday, October 29, 2014

Well Poo or Pee

I love having my little guy with me during lunch at work alone. He is usually awake and ohh so happy. I happen to have an amazing husband who brings him to me changed and fed! SWEET. Anyway today was no different. We sat at my work desk just chatting away and our time soon came to a close. When Jared picked him up my let got cold all the sudden...

This is what I call a leaky diaper. Hahaha
The hubby felt so bad but all I could do was giggle a little bit. A quiet hour with just he and I- I was not about to let a little pee bring me down. "Ain't ganna hold me down, oh no. I got to keep on movi'n." You get extra cool points if you can name that song.

So as I walk around work waiting for my pants to dry I can't help but think how much power we have over ourselves. People say it all the time but it was just a smack in the face for me.

Love my ahh ha moments.

Monday, October 27, 2014

Those days where you feel like Shiz

Welcome to Jessica's pity party, where party favors are not included and its BYOB (bring your own beverage).

There are days where you just seriously dislike yourself. You continuously talk down on yourself and figuratively put yourself in a choke hold. Welcome to my current state of  mind. I have not been my most awesome chipper self for a wee bit because these feeling are kinda common. I can count the "good" days on both hands. Thinking about this makes it worse. Duhh Jessica

I am not here to spread the drama or to solicit sympathy. I just want you to know:

You are not alone!

What you do need to do is find out what works for you to be lifted from these funks. Everyone works completely different. If I suggest: read a few inspirational quotes when your feeling down. It may or may not work for you. I get discouraged, get up and try something different.
   
                                               



Tuesday, October 21, 2014

PMS- Yes you read that right.


Ahhh, raging hormones,crying spells, the uncontrollable urge to stuff your face. Speaking of face, how about the lovely change in your complexion. all of this is either a pre/current/post spectacle to that lovely monthly gift we as women receive each and every month.


 Personally I am slightly new to this whole PMS thing, like within the last 4 years. No I am not 12 years old either...

pms jess
The first time I got cramps( forgot this lovely symptom above) I was a senior in high school. I came home from school at about 10am. I thought I was going to die!! No joke. The nurse let me go home on my own since I was 18. I get home and plop myself of the couch in tears. My dad comes walking is and was seriously concerned. I was not the type to skip school. I'm blubbering and he is trying to translate. After he figured out what my symptoms were he got up and started giggling as he walked out the door. My mom soon came into the living room to figure out what I was saying. Very concerned asking me all kinds of questions. blah blah blah. My dad gets home and tosses a box of Midol at my mom. They both bust into laughter as I lay there on the brink of death. Then my mom looks at me and says "Are you on your period?" "uhh,yeah." More laughter ensues. What is wrong with these people??? Mom then proceeds to explain to me the hidden gifts of "that" time of the month. My mom ended up using the rest of that bottle of Midol since I did not have any cramps or "issues" after that day, until... Babies came

 Pregnancy kills the body I tell you what. Nothing really works that same after each and every kid. Right now I am 5 months post c-section. having your gut cut open is a whole other can of worms on top of the raging hormones. Anyway literally this morning I had an epiphany of sorts. I experience PMS right after I stop nursing my boys(happened with my first as well). My lovely symptoms fall in line with having the complexion of a 14 year old and stuffing my face with all things chocolate and salty. Very bad combo mind you. Only took forever and a day to figure it out!

Being the curious person that I am I Google'd PMS. yes, yes I did. Google has yet to let me down. Anyway The Mayo Clinic goes into the details. I want to hit on easing the symptoms.

-chill out/reduce stress: uhh yeah

-boost that serotonin: those are your happy juices. Exercise is literally the best way to do this.

 -eat healthier: PMS have been linked to low levels of vitamins and minerals- hmmm

 Don't let Mother Nature's gift get you down every month.


http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/premenstrual-syndrome/basics/definition